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I dunno wad to blog.

I’ve tot of beri serious topics like a whole series of Chapters of Life:
1) Is the True Love (Which I had already covered)
2) Health (Which I think I had already covered oso)
3) Success in Life
etc etc, wrote it down, but placed at home.. I’ve got so many things to write n grumble about, tats y I have a blog, rite?!

I used to have sooooo much things.. But recently, no inspiration plus laziness.. So I dunno wad to blog. Can some1 pls give me a topic to tok about?!

Just read my darling 38’s blog. Nearly fainted!!! Her bf took 4 months to bring their relationship out from underground!!!!!! Pengz!!!! How can like tat? Job probation is it?! Or gf probation??

Both are adults, so big liao (especially the guy), still play underground games? Dun let papa mama noe? Dun let frds noe? U think u super-big-star is it?! U think the whole world is the hongkong dogs beri interested in destroying ur privacy is it?? Crazy… lucky 38 u let me noe.. else we not considered close friends.

Of course, getting together as a couple, oso dun need to go around the world telling everyone tat we r attached. However, there no need to hide oso ma! Maybe first mth or first few wks/days abit shy, not beri stable yet, then dun reveal, nvm. But 4 mths leh!!! It’s a quarter of a year!!! Poor 38 suffering unrecognition for a quarter in the year. Tell u ar, its not as if no one wans u. If skali(si-ka-li ) during tat “probation” period got pple woo u ar, I WILL SUPPORT n side tat better one lor, which will recognize u as a “on-the-ground” gf!!! Cuz since he nv confirm u, u oso got the rite to DUN confirm him ma!!! Fair rite? In probation, its all testing ma, no loyalty or faithfulness needed!!! Angry!

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Just like job probation. If company A did NOT gives staff A the employee’s leave and medical benefits due to probation , but company B is offering/poaching the same staff with the reasonable leave n medical benefits, so if the staff job hop to company B, can anyone blame her?! No right!? Although both companies also give salary on time, got more employee benefits is better than no welfare at all rite?! Working is not about money only, its about welfare oso!

Compare the job probation situation to love relationship. If bf A did NOT gives gf roses or due to no right occasions to give, but boy B is offering all the roses n little surprises, so if the gf falls for boy B, no one can blame her right? Although both guys give the same amount of love, got romance better than no romance rite? Love is not about holding hands only, its about sparklez also!!! Speaking of which, I am beri angry now! ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!

I noe by saying all these rubbish, twin is going to scold me again. “How can fall for others because of flowers?! Then wad is the love!? Love cannot be replaced! Love is not only about surprises, long and steady growth is more important!”

Yaya, twin, dun laugh… dun frown oso… but how old is the gal!? Can the bf A just tie her down forever, DEPRIVING her of her rights as a gal, to receive flowers in her life?! If the bf dun wan to give her flowers, then cannot stop others from doing so. The bf DUN EVEN have any rights to feel jealous ok!!! U got hand u got money but its ur choice not to take action! Gals, oso needs to be coax, loved. Gals oso look forward to romantic actions no matter how practical the gal is. If for a prolong period of time, the relationship no love or sparklez, then its not love, its like… a stagnant relationship, waiting for death oni..

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Maybe u all from the same sch, n the social frds oso from the same grp oso abit pai-seh to announce, scare frdship will change. But hellooooo, 38 already grad how long liao!? U pai seh for wad?!?! If I m the gal, I will be more pai she in front of my family n frds when I obviously got a bf but cannot admit or confess!! Worse is, when everyone is ard, ur hands cold until like ice, oso cannot hold his hand for tat tiny little warmth! Should such unnecessary sufferings be part of a healthy relationship!?

Ok, enuff scolding of him in my blog, else 38 going to flood my comments liao.. lets say some good things about him… I recall tat time, u told me tat when he go Malaysia n come back , he drove all the way just to pass u the “lao-po-biscuit” or “ma-ti-biscuit” because ur family loves to eat it… this touches me slightly.. cuz.. he dun oni loves u.. is he is practicing “Ai Wu Ji Wu” (love the house, love the crow on the roof as well). He oso loves ur family n have the sincerity n heart to buy n bring to the loved one of his love one. This is wad I called RELATIONSHIP. Its not only about 2 persons J. Good, keep it up!

Die la, y m I judging on his performance as a bf?! Like I m some maritial love judge! Sorry people!!!! Probably its all becuz 38’s blog is always mentioning her dear here n dear there, showing off how sweet her dear is… fine, I got nothing to show off, so I tok rubbish in my blog. :P

If u mind, then just drop me a msg, I can edit/delete it upon ur request.