Thoughts of My Life Journey

Sunday, October 29, 2006

My Bdae Celebration 2006 Part 4

Cool... after part 3, now its backdated till Sun, 15 Oct 06.

Was supposed to meet up with tina n teresa(xem) de... but tat idiot xem, LATE FOR 2HRS!!!!!!!! ridiculars..

lucky kind tina reached on time, then shop ard with me, entertaining me b4 i throw my temper.. but becuz the wait is really too long n she hungry till ate a bowl of yun ton mee first.. poor thing..

finally the xem aka ghost came... with her strawberry coated with chocolate, specially for me. she forgot to bring it while visiting his bf, so she went back all the way home to get it. up till here, u all might think she is forgiveable since late is becuz of the gift. but pls la, 2hrs leh!!! u noe y i angry??? cuz we supposed to meet at 4pm, when i called her at 4:05pm, she was still at her bf house!!!! then nvm, when hurried her already, tina called her at 4:30pm and she still at her bf house!!! no intention of leaving or coming!!! ARGH!!!!

else dun need 2hrs lor! i bdae leh!!! still have to wait... *($&%*#$^%&*$^&*%^#$&*%

Then we all went to Sakae Sushi for dinner at HMV. well... the gals aren't really big eaters.. and xem oso brought along a cake from Tangs dunno wad cake shop... REALLY NICE!!! finally she redeemed her sins...

we got a small prob lighting the candle.. cuz none of us were smokers n nv bring any lighters.. so asked from the restaurant... n guess wad?

they gave a super big lighter, used to light the stove one... to light a wad? Candle!!! pengz.. haha
















See, late for 2hrs still can smile n pose.. pengz... the candlelight.. haha...



The cake is really nice.. till the 3 of us finished it all, of cuz, the majority by me! :)


pic of Me n tina...

After tat, we shop ard again.. till walk to Orchard MRT.. while in wisma, met some freaky middle age lady, whom we suspect to collect alot of receipts from strangers n used it to exchange for free gifts. but cuz its a one person one time exchange event, so she asked tina n xem to help her change. being kind, they change liao wan to give her the gift, she went off.. so we followed her... then beri frustrated... cuz we help her yet still gena make fun off.. then we realised the security seems to b chasing her.. so she is leaving but letting us follow her stupidly... ARRGH!! nx time dun help such pple liao.. make us look stupid...

then went back liao, meet JH for a short chat...

then oyasumi liao... monday still got work.. haiz.. bz wkend..

n indeed, woke up with a beri hoarse voice.. haiz.. old liao..

Thursday, October 26, 2006

My Bdae Celebration 2006 Part 3

This is my part 3 celebration on a sat, 14 Oct 06. was supposed to go sentosa, but after the late nite celebrations from part 1 and 2, i woke up with my bones almost splitting.. haiz.. old liao.. then i last min changed venue from sentosa to harbourfront.. since there a newly opened shopping paradize called vivo city.

Wow Leh!!! its super duper spacious and all the common shops tat we seen in other shopping centers looks so high class here, well renovated and decorated. crazy liao, the crowd.. haizyo.. sgorens really got not much places to go...

then while waiting for my monkey to come... the whole lot of us, (Liling n hua gua, yuanlin n crab, xiaowei n lao yang, moon cake) went to settle down at a Pacific cafe.. the atmosphere not bad, with the chairs like The Balcony at HMV...

Treat them some drinks cuz i m terribly late for 30mins.. oh... moon cake brought his manual camera n took some pics, will upload again once he got it developed and i scanned it..

we loiter ard for a LONG TIME becuz we couldn't find a place to have our dinner in!!! SCARY!!! the queues in each and every restaurant is like the food is free... freaking!!!

then lucky lao yang got a discount card at riverview hotel. (ps: dunno is called riverview or rivervally, forgot liao! sorry :P) then we decided to venture out of vivo city.

just nice, monkey oso reach liao... at a super late time..

then... we a big feast, ala carte buffet.. the food!? normal lor, i m hungry, yet i can still b so fussy, means the food is really bad.. abit disappointed...

but nevertheless, i m thankful tat i got so many frds willing to celebrate with me. Ah, see my face is in this, no make up, plus a late nite b4, so tired... anyway, need to thanks monkey for treating me to the feast.

Next is phototaking and playing of sparkles ard the vincinity. haha.. fun.. thanks mooncake for preparing all the stuffs automatically! yeah!!!


but after the fun, dunno who so SMART, suggest to walk to the mrt station.. which is tiong bahru.. n according to my measurements from the streetdirectory, it is around 2km long!!!! pengz... with me in my bdae suit, n all my body aches.. n heels... i crawled over there..

:'( but i now then realised... outram mrt is nearer.. even if taking a bus to mrt will be easier n faster n less sufferings.. sobs.. whose idea to walk? tell me!!! ARGH!!!!

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

My Bdae Celebration 2006 Part 2

sorry, now then got time to update the contents...

after much undecisive considerations, we decided on a place whereby we can drink, sit and chat. best is a cheap ktv... hehe.. then we settle down at kbox again, after comparison of prices. i even bargain with the manager to give us a good rate, hehe... n he gave us a bdae cake on the account tat its my bdae celebration... *auntie bargain always win!* hehehehehehehehe

this pic is our long lost DIT0005 class pic, wow, look where is gerald's hand :P

there are so many photos, but this above one is named "one mic not enuff". haha... all pics can be found at rish's photo webby..


while cathy is singing in a beri devoted manner, xiaohui n me still can detect n pose at the camera... haha

this is my great photographer of the day n her bf yw. thanks rish once again! :)

dum da!!! this is the cake i mentioned. not beri fantasing but big till the 7 of us can't finish. thanks kbox for "sponsoring".

i got so many pics wan to upload. but stupid blogspot limits oni 5.

one typical joke is dunno y xh's hubby micheal, do the zidane headbutt n ask me to hit him.. then i almost did.. then i said.. "test mic... mic test..."haha

1am +.. then all the sleepy heads went back... tired...

end of part 2, hehe.. thanks rish for the photos!

My Bdae Celebration 2006 Part 1


Its the time of the year, whereby the candles blowing session comes for me. well... sorry for the belated update. cuz i foresee its going to be a long thread since i took one whole wk to complete my bdae celebrations with my diff grps of frds. So the longer it is, the more lazy i wan to type..


Hmm.. how to start? When I am uploading my pictures, then I realised each thread can only put 5 pics at max. so bobian, I choose to blog it in diff parts, according to diff grp of frds.

This is the first part, event taking on 13/10/06. This pic is taken at Chinatown, thanks cherrish for bringing camera n taking for me. My poly class had a small gathering, with frds tat I haven not seen due to super busy schedule. Like Gerald, I think since grad from poly, nv see him in real person at all!!! Thanks for coming!!! Hehe

Another is roy, the little boy with the biggest size but matured the earliest. Heng he noes the way well in Chinatown. Cuz I think I forgot how to go to the intended Hans for dinner, then the whole grp of us will be lost…. But in the end we went for steamboat instead… Haha.. busy man. Thanks for giving face!

Thanks xiaohui and rish for bringing their “the other half” to make the event more “re nao”.

A pity that owl, Irene n pzx cannot make it, else really big class gathering liao. But nvm la, always got nx year one, plus they really busy.. cannot force!

The steamboat is okok only la, but becuz of the company, all of us were generally happy... haha.. see pic, food attack!!!




Our xiaohui aka bride-to-be really noes how to pose, candid shots oso can smile so pretty! haha





Ok, this is wierd... cathy is telling us about her sad story.. then i ended up crying... but evil cherrish took this pic.. n ask me to cry n retake again! bish!!! ok la.. i was laughing already when they told me how come my bdae i cry for others.. haha.. shldn't be showing this pic.. but.. i think its classic in a way..

cathy, dun think too much! we always support u ok!


Then followed by alot of ghost stories sponsored by xiaohui's hubby-to-be aka micheal (twin, same name as ur hubby-to-be oso.. haha.. fiance) rish was covering her ears... so scare... haha..

this is a beautiful big lantern... taken on the day.. cuz it happens to be lantern festival day oso.. but in chinatown, sad to say, not much chinese r carrying the lanterns... pple forgot the tradition or wad? the caucasians are carrying it!!! haha.. wierd..

anyway, this pic is taken on the way when we are going for KTV.. yeah!!!

**look up for part 2, to be continued**

Friday, October 13, 2006

Nothing to Do find things to get angry about...

I dunno wad to blog.

I’ve tot of beri serious topics like a whole series of Chapters of Life:
1) Is the True Love (Which I had already covered)
2) Health (Which I think I had already covered oso)
3) Success in Life
etc etc, wrote it down, but placed at home.. I’ve got so many things to write n grumble about, tats y I have a blog, rite?!

I used to have sooooo much things.. But recently, no inspiration plus laziness.. So I dunno wad to blog. Can some1 pls give me a topic to tok about?!

Just read my darling 38’s blog. Nearly fainted!!! Her bf took 4 months to bring their relationship out from underground!!!!!! Pengz!!!! How can like tat? Job probation is it?! Or gf probation??

Both are adults, so big liao (especially the guy), still play underground games? Dun let papa mama noe? Dun let frds noe? U think u super-big-star is it?! U think the whole world is the hongkong dogs beri interested in destroying ur privacy is it?? Crazy… lucky 38 u let me noe.. else we not considered close friends.

Of course, getting together as a couple, oso dun need to go around the world telling everyone tat we r attached. However, there no need to hide oso ma! Maybe first mth or first few wks/days abit shy, not beri stable yet, then dun reveal, nvm. But 4 mths leh!!! It’s a quarter of a year!!! Poor 38 suffering unrecognition for a quarter in the year. Tell u ar, its not as if no one wans u. If skali(si-ka-li ) during tat “probation” period got pple woo u ar, I WILL SUPPORT n side tat better one lor, which will recognize u as a “on-the-ground” gf!!! Cuz since he nv confirm u, u oso got the rite to DUN confirm him ma!!! Fair rite? In probation, its all testing ma, no loyalty or faithfulness needed!!! Angry!

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Just like job probation. If company A did NOT gives staff A the employee’s leave and medical benefits due to probation , but company B is offering/poaching the same staff with the reasonable leave n medical benefits, so if the staff job hop to company B, can anyone blame her?! No right!? Although both companies also give salary on time, got more employee benefits is better than no welfare at all rite?! Working is not about money only, its about welfare oso!

Compare the job probation situation to love relationship. If bf A did NOT gives gf roses or due to no right occasions to give, but boy B is offering all the roses n little surprises, so if the gf falls for boy B, no one can blame her right? Although both guys give the same amount of love, got romance better than no romance rite? Love is not about holding hands only, its about sparklez also!!! Speaking of which, I am beri angry now! ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!

I noe by saying all these rubbish, twin is going to scold me again. “How can fall for others because of flowers?! Then wad is the love!? Love cannot be replaced! Love is not only about surprises, long and steady growth is more important!”

Yaya, twin, dun laugh… dun frown oso… but how old is the gal!? Can the bf A just tie her down forever, DEPRIVING her of her rights as a gal, to receive flowers in her life?! If the bf dun wan to give her flowers, then cannot stop others from doing so. The bf DUN EVEN have any rights to feel jealous ok!!! U got hand u got money but its ur choice not to take action! Gals, oso needs to be coax, loved. Gals oso look forward to romantic actions no matter how practical the gal is. If for a prolong period of time, the relationship no love or sparklez, then its not love, its like… a stagnant relationship, waiting for death oni..


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Maybe u all from the same sch, n the social frds oso from the same grp oso abit pai-seh to announce, scare frdship will change. But hellooooo, 38 already grad how long liao!? U pai seh for wad?!?! If I m the gal, I will be more pai she in front of my family n frds when I obviously got a bf but cannot admit or confess!! Worse is, when everyone is ard, ur hands cold until like ice, oso cannot hold his hand for tat tiny little warmth! Should such unnecessary sufferings be part of a healthy relationship!?

Ok, enuff scolding of him in my blog, else 38 going to flood my comments liao.. lets say some good things about him… I recall tat time, u told me tat when he go Malaysia n come back , he drove all the way just to pass u the “lao-po-biscuit” or “ma-ti-biscuit” because ur family loves to eat it… this touches me slightly.. cuz.. he dun oni loves u.. is he is practicing “Ai Wu Ji Wu” (love the house, love the crow on the roof as well). He oso loves ur family n have the sincerity n heart to buy n bring to the loved one of his love one. This is wad I called RELATIONSHIP. Its not only about 2 persons J. Good, keep it up!

Die la, y m I judging on his performance as a bf?! Like I m some maritial love judge! Sorry people!!!! Probably its all becuz 38’s blog is always mentioning her dear here n dear there, showing off how sweet her dear is… fine, I got nothing to show off, so I tok rubbish in my blog. :P

If u mind, then just drop me a msg, I can edit/delete it upon ur request.

Monday, October 09, 2006

Everyone's getting Married!!!

Xiaowei got married off last yr 20/11/5.

Then is twin, ROMing this 9/11/6.

then is xiaohui 27/1/6.

then i received a few more invitations.

for yanxuan's (i call her auntie lau) wedding dinner on 25/11/6. i wish her all the best! :)

and

to be the "sis" of angela (my ex ex colleague). on 27/4/7. she beri wierd. 1 whole yr nv call or sms me, nv meet ups, suddenly call to ask me be her sis, cuz i good at saboing the guys?! haiz.. or i good to be used?

wierd... i think this age or this era, the IN thing is to get married.. haha..

so, if i go b wedding planner or full time "sister", i can earn alot of money, dun need work liao..

but how, such thing got quota one, cannot exceed 3 times cuz theres a myth says after tat cannot marry off...

Change of Job

Cool.. I m back with internet access again..

Sorry pple, for those who reads my blog often.. I m not lost in the non-internet world.. in fact, for the past 2 wks, I had been overwhelmed with freedom n freedom n freedom.. haha

Some issues happened, and after a long time and accumulation, I finally got the courage to tender my resignation... WITHOUT even securing a job… haha.. Daring rite?!?! Forsaking a stable job with stable constant bonus and haven even complete my degree yet! But the opportunity cost is morale getting lower, no prospect, lost touch with pte sector, see stupid people everyday.. n handle stupid enquiries which caused by those who refused or forgot they can use their brain.. well… n worse, open the doors for the “handicapped” pple… so unfair..

I m so happy during my “break” though my savings is drying fast as days went by n no income to sustain.. But I noe I deserve a break, not long but short. :)

Fortunately, mum was supportive. Hehe. At least she nv comes after me for family taxes…. But I can’t on the air con so often le la, cuz no contributions then better dun exhaust the others.. the killer are my bills, edu loan payments and mthly insurance, cpf etc…

I was quite slack, too lazy to even buy the straits times, mainly online job applications, then the following was NEOPETS, MONOPOLY and MSN!!! Haha… jia lat.. n ya, pat tor lor.. got more time for my si monkey.. but the weather beri hot.. I oso lazy to go out..

I was beri lucky, god blessed; tat I got a job, tat pays pretty well, remuneration n package n benefits even better than before! God bless!!! :)

I went for less than 10 interviews in the past mth, compared to my 20++ interviews after my poly grad, I think tats an accomplishment. However, one of the reason tat I dared to quit is becuz the job market is good at the moment…

So, now, I m employed again! Yippy!


I been looking forward to leave my ex working place… but due to my high commitments an liabilities and the attractive remuneration, I hang on.. n hang on n hang on.. there were times when I just dun wan to care about anything anymore, but my good frds cum exex-colleagues were always there to encourage me. Especially jess, who spend ard 1hr of her hp air time to persuade me not to quit, analyzing to me the pros n cons… actually I understand all the logic even without her telling. But her power n the miracle of frds make it sink to my mind, so I noe the importance of the job. Thanks Jess!!!

I m sorry for disappointing u. After ur morale encouragement for 6mths, I tender again.. well.. for the good or bad, I dunno. Lets just hope for the best! :) frds forever.


I noe I will definitely have a lot to learn in a new environment. Be it culture, system, work, procedures, names, pple, technologies.. a lot a lot..

I was so excited tat the day b4 my first day of work, I could catch a wink.. mind was too active to sleep… haha

I hope I will be able to keep being excited, for good reasons of course! :)